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I am a 50 and need to be coached (client).I have been in a abusive relationship for all my married life and this led to physical,emotional,verbal and financial abuse. I am still in this relatonship and we had counselling but this did not help I am still n the relationship and do not know what to do next. Please help....I like to help women that are in my position someday

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May 10, 2011

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by: Debi Robins

Dolsiny. Life sometimes offers us mirrors of what we feel on the inside. For instance, if you feel worthless, insecure or that you are not good enough, this very often becomes a reflection of your life on the outside as well (like attracting an abusive partner).
Until you deal with this, you will continue to attract people and situations into your life that will prove the very things that your subconscious mind believes (whether this belief is true or not).
It simply is just a reflection of what is going on inside, not of who you truly are.
Start by telling yourself daily how special you are. Tell yourself daily how much you love yourself. At first you may find this hard, but with practise it will become easier. Then see a counselor who can help you to learn to love yourself unconditionally, exactly as you are.
After learning to love yourself, the world has no option but to respond to this love. Relationships become easier, people treat you differently because they are responding to your new attitude of yourself, and abusive partners either change or leave.
And then, when you are ready, see a life coach who will help you set goals for your wonderful new life of helping women just like yourself to understand how special they are.
Please e-mail me at any time at debi.guidance@yahoo.com
Love and light
Debi

Mar 09, 2011

Hello Lorraine
by: Susanne Thomas

I feel for you and I am sure I can help you. I am a Life Coach with New Insights and live in Durban KZN. I dont know where you are but even if you are not anywhere near my home town you can still Coach with me via Phone and e-mail.
I am specialized in helping Ladies in the middle of their life who want to make a fresh start. I am 53 and started afresh after the death of my husband three years ago.
Please consider getting in contact with me, you can get all information from my website at
http:/durbancoaching.wordpress.com

Dont stop searching, you will find what you are looking for. Change is possible !

Feb 18, 2011

Hi Dolsiny
by: Lorraine

My heart goes out to you. Firstly, you need to know that you are a unique and special person and do not need to tolerate any form of abuse. Before you can go on to be directed with life coaching, you need to go for personal councelling with someone who is experienced in this area to help you realise that you need to get out of that situation and then move on. Maybe you feel you will not cope alone and thus continue to be belittled, undermined and battered. YOU need to know that you will survive, you can have the strength and the wherewithall to do so. My goodness, if you have stayed in an abusive environment and tolerated that, you can stand tall and hold your head up and can survive on your own terms. You will be happier, more fullfilled and start to believe in yourself again. It sounds like you feel like you are nothing more than a worm. RUBBISH! you are worthy, you are precious, you are unique and thus entitled to a beautiful life. not what you have right now. GET OUT and go for help, please. God bless you.

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