I am a thirty one year old Black Zimbabwean woman living and working in Johannesburg. i came to South Africa about ten years ago having acquired up to education Form 4 in Zimbabwe which was then good enough for me to go by. I did 'piece jobs' as a domestic worker/housekeeper. I started living with a home boy Zimbabwean boyfriend now living and working in Johannesburg as 'live in' husband and wife. We started to make civil marriage arrangements which would have enable me to get permanent residency in South Africa but relationship fell apart about eight months ago, though it does not make me feel insecure about maintaining myself and legal permission to live in South Africa. However, I feel my life is stuck, and need help to clear my head, find my purpose and focus. I believe I have enough physical, mental and emotional energy to enable me to make better use of my life. I should be studying but am not sure what and where, and would like advice and assistance to establish value-adding social networks. I believe and hope a life coach can help me.