Things to Remember

Like you, I’m sure, I get sent all manner of things on email, most of which end up in ‘file 13’ because they are either unoriginal or simply not that inspiring.

However, once in a while somebody sends me something that I consider truly inspirational – and I have a special file where I store these gems!

Today I’d like to share with you one of those ‘gems’. It’s a piece written the late George Carlin.

George Carlin was an iconic American stand-up comedian who died in June 2008 aged 71. Carlin was well known for his black humour and satirical nature, which I believe makes this eloquent and moving piece - which he wrote after the death of his first wife in 1997 - all the more special.

But before I continue, I’d like to make those of you in the Cape aware of the fact that we will be running a series of three-hour ‘Introduction to Life Coaching’ workshops in Noordhoek over the week-end of the 7th and 8th February. The cost is just R75 per person if you pay in advance and seating is limited. For more information please click on this link:

OK, now let’s hear from George Carlin:

“The paradox of our time in history is that we have taller buildings but shorter tempers, wider Freeways , but narrower viewpoints. We spend more, but have less, we buy more, but enjoy less. We have bigger houses and smaller families, more conveniences, but less time. We have more degrees but less sense, more knowledge, but less judgment, more experts, yet more problems, more medicine, but less wellness.

We drink too much, smoke too much, spend too recklessly, laugh too little, drive too fast, get too angry, stay up too late, get up too tired, read too little, watch TV too much, and pray too seldom.

We have multiplied our possessions, but reduced our values. We talk too much, love too seldom, and hate too often.

We've learned how to make a living, but not a life. We've added years to life not life to years. We've been all the way to the moon and back, but have trouble crossing the street to meet a new neighbour. We conquered outer space but not inner space. We've done larger things, but not better things.

We've cleaned up the air, but polluted the soul. We've conquered the atom, but not our prejudice. We write more, but learn less. We plan more, but accomplish less. We've learned to rush, but not to wait. We build more computers to hold more information, to produce more copies than ever, but we communicate less and less.

These are the times of fast foods and slow digestion, big men and small character, steep profits and shallow relationships. These are the days of two incomes but more divorce, fancier houses, but broken homes. These are days of quick trips, disposable diapers, throwaway morality, one night stands, overweight bodies, and pills that do everything from cheer, to quiet, to kill. It is a time when there is much in the showroom window and nothing in the stockroom. A time when technology can bring this letter to you, and a time when you can choose either to share this insight, or to just hit delete...

Remember, spend some time with your loved ones, because they are not going to be around forever.

Remember, say a kind word to someone who looks up to you in awe, because that little person soon will grow up and leave your side.

Remember, to give a warm hug to the one next to you, because that is the only treasure you can give with your heart and it doesn't cost a cent.

Remember, to say, "I love you" to your partner and your loved ones, but most of all mean it. A kiss and an embrace will mend hurt when it comes from deep inside of you.

Remember to hold hands and cherish the moment for someday that person will not be there again.

Give time to love, give time to speak! And give time to share the precious thoughts in your mind.


Life is not measured by the number of breaths we take, but by the moments that take our breath away.”

Thought provoking, don’t you think ?

No wonder there is such a growing demand for good life coaches in today’s society. And good life coaches is exactly what we at New Insights are committed to developing as we look to have a positive influence on the lives of South Africans from all walks of life.

Have a great week!

With warm regards,


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