You just showed me what is lacking in my house hold!
We are arguing a lot and very edgy and I realise that with the "Afrikaner legacy”, if you can call it that, we were controlled and manipulated from a early age because of our urge to be extremely disciplined or force discipline unto others, not that discipline is bad.
But by trying to hard to change others, we make ourselves unhappy and very angry people. I hope I don't offend someone’s beliefs, but if a father and husband realise there is a problem and drive the solution towards change, then one can change your whole house hold around, to control what each of us can control, ourselves, we will be more relaxed and loving.
Well I’m slowly changing my ways and I’m, for now, allowed to talk about myself, because I’m a student, ha ha, but starting to listen.